What is oral Sex?

Written by SHFPACT. Posted in About Sex

What is oral Sex and how do you do it? Oral sex is when a person uses their mouth to sexually stimulate the genitals of another person.

Oral sex given to a woman usually means kissing, licking or sucking the clitoris and other parts of the vulva (female genitals). It's called cunnilingus. You might have heard it called other things, such as "going down on" a girl, "eating (someone) out", etc.

Oral sex given to a man usually means kissing, sucking and licking the penis. It's called fellatio ("fell-a-she-oh"). You might have heard it called other things, such as "blowjob", "headjob", "going down on" a guy or "sucking him off". Sometimes oral sex also involves kissing or sucking the testicles (balls).

Slang words can be confusing because their meanings are not always clear. For example, "blowjob" has nothing to do with blowing; "eating out" does not involve chewing.

There is no "right" way to perform oral sex on a male or a female because different things are pleasurable for different people. It's best to take it slowly, try different things out and see what the other person likes or wants. You can ask what the person likes, and you can ask if certain things feel good when you are doing them.

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